"The more chances you give someone the less respect they will start to have for you. They will begin to ignore the standards that you have set because they will know another chance will always be given. They are not afraid to lose you because they know no matter what you won't walk away. They get comfortable with depending on your forgiveness. Never let a person get comfortable disrespecting you"
The old adage is, “Forgive and forget.”
I always take forget in the sense of forgetting those people who used to hurt or betrays without thinking of giving them any other chances.
There are venomous people on this earth. Most people are out for themselves, they play to their own agenda. Having these people in your life will only be detrimental to you.
It’s like Hillary Clinton said, “You can’t keep snakes in your backyard and expect them to only bite your neighbours.” Eventually, those snakes are going to bite you, poison you and destroy you.
If you betray me, we are done.
Nothing dramatic, no epic fight, no screaming, no crying. You’re just not going to be in my life anymore and that’s the end of it. Plain and simple.
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice? Shame on me. The first time a person stabs you in the back, you couldn’t have seen it coming,the second time leaves you no excuse. If you forgive someone for a harsh deception, you’re only inviting that person to do it again.
It is said that only 10% is the actual pain, rest 90% is self-induced!!!
Just by forgoing a person's mistake and accepting them back is your stupidity and definitely their gain.
You are here to take care of your life and not be a reformer, unless you have taken oath that way!! beyond certain point, you should let go of those person from your mind. You need to accept whatever has happened with you and move ahead with better hopes. Nobody is strong by birth, its the circumstances which hone your emotion handling skills.
Please do stay away from that so called "loved ones" so that you don't have to keep a tab on their daily routine or happenings of their daily life. Then slowly start ignoring them or meeting them less and gradually cut off from their contact. Train your mind that not knowing or knowing about those is not going to make you any good. Be INTACT!!!
