"I am figuring out which parts of my personality are mine and which ones I created to please you!!!"
Sometimes we try to show the world we are flawless in hopes that we will be liked and accepted by everyone, but we can’t please everyone and we shouldn’t try. The beauty of us lies in our vulnerability, our complex emotions, and our authentic imperfections. When we embrace who we are and decide to be authentic, instead of who we think others want us to be, we open ourselves up to real relationships, real happiness, and real success.
There is no need to put on a mask. There is no need to pretend to be someone you’re not. You have nothing to prove to anyone else, because…No one can play your role better than you and You are the best when you are you. Always believe this. Remember, you were alone when you were born. No one else came with you. So since the first day of your life you were alone and even on the last day of your life you'll be alone so how can you expect any other person to play your role? Only one person knows yourself better and its only you. So only you can play your role better, no one else can do it anyway.
You don’t need a standing ovation or a bestseller or a promotion or a million bucks. You are enough right now. You have nothing to prove. Care less about who you are to others and more about who you are to yourself. You will have less heartaches and disappointments the minute you stop seeking from others the validation only YOU can give yourself.
“It is none of our business what other people think of us.”
You have a relationship with yourself 24/7, there will never be another person as unique as you. We are all unique in different ways. Loving ourselves is vital for happiness and fulfillment. I believe everything will fall into place if you love yourself unconditionally. It is not ego. You cannot give to others, what you don’t have yourself. Self love also attracts people who love you for you.
To myself, I love u with all my heart.
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