then, she began to breathe, and live, and every moment took her to a place where goodbyes were hard to come by. She was in love, but not in love with someone or something, she was in love with her life, and for the first time, in a long time, everything was inspiring....
Being alone is the best part because no one can hurt you but only yourself which is though justified. Loneliness is far more better then the fake relationships around you who pretend to be your care takers. It is the best anesthesia from all the worst parts in your life. Standing alone doesn't mean that you are weak or you have an isolated kind of personality but it means you are strong enough to handle everything by yourself rather then depending on the people who are masked.
When we became habitual for being alone, we can be with others without using them as a mean of escape. its your road you have to walk alone in any way, others may walk it with you but no one can walk it for you.
The capacity to be alone, Is the capacity to love!!!It may look paradoxical to you, but its not. It is an existential truth; only those people who are capable of being alone, are capable of love of sharing, of going in the deepest core of another person; without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on other, without reducing the other to a thing and more over without becoming addicted to the other.
you are not alone;
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