LIVE IN THE MOMENT....

it was all dry and arid, All hopes of spring were shattered and out of nowhere

 "IT RAINED IN SUMMER..."

 Every relation change with time no matter how strong it is! Its in the nature of human beings. They are adaptive to everything new which attracts them. To be constant is not even in the nature prevailing around us. If someone claims that their relation with you will remain same at all times they must be misinterpreting it with their present feelings. Never attach false hopes to it. Besides;  its not even the fault of that person, its simply a  thing of nature no one should be blamed on this because change is constant. What we usually do we trust the words keeping the fact aside. Due to this we get hurt sometimes. Hopes are attach to words and when we come across the fact that nothing in permanent we start blaming the person. We feel that may be they did this on purpose which is wrong. My point is that you should follow your mind and your heart both at the same time. Feeling grief, agony or misery afterwards is not acceptable. Try to live in the moment rather than making future plans, thinking that all of your expectations are going to be come true. 

• Keep balance in life.
• Stop thinking about the future.
• Stop blaming.
• Stop expecting alot from other, may be what they gave you was all what they have!       
• Be a giver rather than a receiver.
• Let go of with regrets and grudges.
• Stop being sad for the upcoming life focus on your present or you will loose what you have right now.
• Start counting your blessings. 
• Take a new start.
• Feel in the moments.
• Dance in the rain.
• Wish on dandelions.
• Eat chocolates.:)
• Believe in magic.

                                                                                                                       Be Happy!!!

SAYING "No"...!!!

Only the strongest can endure isolation for having the strength to say "NO"

No itself is a full fledged sentence. It does not need any clarification. According to me it is the most honest word in the entire dictionary. The one who has the ability to say no is the one who captured all the fears within him or herself. Besides this we should be sure of that while saying no, we are not saying yes to ourself. All those persons who are true to themselves are always true to others similarly. Never cripple the relationship between you and you by being dishonest to yourself while not having the courage to say no. If you have the strength to say no then never bother to justify it to people because acceptance is easy to handle than rejection, so is no. We must say no to doing things out of obligations, thereby; cheating those important to us of the purest expressions of our love.

Knowing...!!!(to my friends) ;)

I know I am hard to handle, some days I am all smiles and affections and then other day there is nothing , I want to be more quiet and lie in bed, prefer to be alone.Sometimes I get angry on stupid things and won't want to talk to you; other days I'll think you are the most perfect person in the world! Sometimes all what matters is you; other day I want myself to get the same acceptance. Sometimes I am all honest to you; the other day I have the thousand brilliant lies for the question: how are you?Please do not give up on me. I know its not that much easy but

I WILL ALWAYS COME BACK TO YOU!!!

LOVE HUMANLY...:) (dedication)

 Why we should ever give up on a person, We would give up everything for???

 

I can never digest particularly this fact of humans. We are not animals that one day we used to be with someone and the other day their is nothing. How could one even thinks like that? I wonder. I never believed on the saying: Let them go, if they return they were always yours. I can't figure it why you let them go at the first place? Relationships are not meant to be gain experiences, they are their just to be in love.

"But if they are willing to go than let them go do not be materialistic because if you truly love than your happiness lies in their happiness"

what the heck is that, this kind of stupid counseling you used to hear is nothing but a piece of crap though! What I am trying to say is be selfish, be impatient, be materialistic because love is to get, not to let go of. And even if a point comes that you love someone and all you find is pain and hurt, never let go of keep trying, keep holding on because with time everything will make sense eventually. If you love something your natural instinct is to hold on to it. What I really mean is that when you love someone you do not have to look for the faults, do not look for the answers, do not look for mistakes. Instead you fight the mistakes, you have to accept the faults and you must over look excuses. " THE MEASURE OF LOVE IS WHEN YOU LOVE WITHOUT MEASURES". So if you find someone who makes you smile, who checks up on you often to see if you are ok, who watches out for you and wants the very best for you, do not let them go keep them much closer and never take them for granted. People like that are hard to find!!!

INNER CHILD...a part of you!!!!

Everyone has a child inside.No matter what your age is you have a part that is CHILDISH, which is full of innocence, love, stupidness and most of all cuteness.That part of you must be nurtured from the people closer to you as it only comes out infront of the people you are most comfortable with.Its that part of our personality which is more positive and makes us stop while becoming a monster.Mostly people do not want that part of you to be nursed while saying; Grow UP! or be mature.But what i recommend is never let anyone destroy that part in you because if that part is crushed you can never be same as before.Try to be with the person who enhances this part of you. Who feels happy to see a child in you rather then taking it out from you because that is the person who loves you irrevocably and unconditionally.So love to be childish; to be stubborn at times; to act stupid; to feel innocent because only you have the authority to decide what is good for you!!!

    Feel proud to be childish...:) <3

Reality of "LIFE"...

 Roundabouts, eat and be eaten; and then there was light, Drip, Drop...noise, noise everywhere...and there was LIFE staring into your eyes!!!
Life is  not as simple as it looks. It is full of ups and downs though what it makes it more difficult are the negative people in it. The people who are always judgmental. Who judge you from your words rather then your actions. They only believe whatever is visible to them, beyond thinking that there is always a hidden part of a person which is more dominant than the visible one. Inside every person u know, is a person you do not know. Further more they assumes that they are the pain taker and you are the pain giver. They always try to mock a pain, they never endured; to make you guilty. They make you feel that you are the revenge taker too but they are unaware of the fact that the revenge takers are better than then the ones who keeps their heart stuffed with grudges. But no matter what people or life gives you take it with a SMILE because their are other people prevailing in your life too. Those relations and people are worth melting for. They are the ones you want in your life forever. So never let them FADE INTO NOTHINGNESS. As humans we ruin each and everything we touch but make sure it do not effect those people who are everything to you; the ones who really RE ARRANGE YOU!!!

 "In the end they will judge you, Allah will justify you!"

DISCOVER YOUR "DESTINY"....

Sometimes you feels that you are standing on edge of a cliff filled with internal darkness, feeling stifle more and more. You are just waiting for a ray of light that can enlightened you internally, a ray which can lead you to something peace giving, something comforting, something beautiful, something which can accept you as who you are, something who see perfection in your flaws; matureness in your childish behavior; sadness behind your smile; silence in your words; tears behind your sparkling eyes; trust you without evidence; love you without reason; and

                   that something is your Destiny....

 

A GLIMPSE OF LIFE THROUGH MY EYES...a journey from shallow to deep!!!

"I got mature with the damage not with the time"

and What I mean is humans are fragile creatures made up of broken heart and broken promises all together. I have heard from someone that cigarette burns, alcohol kills but so do the "Words" indeed. Its always words that undress you. But for instance you are your problem and you are your solution perhaps what I figured out is that much of your pain is self chosen. So its both a blessing and a curse at the same time to feel everything so very deeply. Be sure that in the end you must be your own "Hero" because everyone else try to save themselves so be well aware that life's biggest battles are fought alone.

Now I find scars attractive, I find flaws beautiful..



getting to know!!!

most favorite saying...

"Detachment is not that you should own Nothing but Nothing should own you"

                                                                                                                 Hazrat Ali(R.A)

rule book...

Never ever handover a rule book to the people you love, You must love them for who they are!!!

sarcasm...

He asked: What's the most sarcastic part?
She replied:
The sarcastic part is not the feeling of loneliness or the darkness that fills you despite the looming pain of emptiness...
The sarcastic part was the realization that you have lost yourself completely sinking in as you lay awake at 3 am because you lost the ability to sleep and you can't even cry because you don't even care...

 

"I BURN MYSELF IN THE FIRE OF MY OWN THOUGHTS"

A FANTASY...

May be we are all stories. Each and everyone a different character, waiting for the reader, A perfect one...The one who's genre is

"WHAT YOU ARE"...



me...

I am a kind of girl who lives in her fantasy world full of fairy tales though, who believes that, miracles do happen, who find beauty in nature, who used to wish on a dandelion, who pray while seeing a shooting star; above awl my favorite fairy tale is beauty and the beast.All the girls used to watch it and wanted a prince but what i dreamed of is the Beast and the Library...:P

 

illusion...

Sometimes people do not want to hear the TRUTH because they do not want their illusions destroyed!!!

Magic...;)

Let the WORDS wave their wand and do the "MAGIC"....<3